Hi! My name is Rudi!
With a background in social work and communication, I’ve always felt a deep calling to help and coach people in becoming the best versions of themselves.

On August 24th, 2024, I married my husband Emile. As I began planning our wedding, I stepped into a world of contrasts. A world overflowing with love and joy, yet also shadowed by fears, insecurities, and expectations I hadn’t anticipated. It was the ultimate mirror, reflecting everything: old wounds, family dynamics, and the pressure to be perfect. And let’s not even start on the question every bride asks herself: will I feel beautiful enough on my wedding day?

Getting married can be an emotional journey. You’re navigating traditions, social media, family expectations, and cultural pressures. Sometimes, all that noise can drown out your own voice. Before you know it, you’re looking around on your wedding day and it feels like someone else’s celebration. But what do you want? And how do you express that? I’m here to help you reconnect with your inner bride and step fully into your power.

I remember feeling overwhelmed by the endless stream of wedding content online. Everything looked so big, so perfect, and it left me questioning: Was our wedding special enough? Were we doing it right? But the truth is, most of us just want a wedding that feels like us. It doesn’t have to be complicated or picture-perfect. The closer you stay to who you truly are, the easier it all becomes, and the more joy you’ll find in both the preparation and the celebration.

After experiencing the pressure and chaos of planning my own wedding, I knew something needed to change. That’s why I created a softer, slower, and more heart-centered approach to wedding planning. One rooted in intention, clarity, and joy. A process that helps you trust your intuition and focus on what truly matters.

Wedding planners and coordinators are wonderful at handling the practical details. A wedding coach, however, is here for your inner world, your emotions, your energy, and your sense of self throughout this transformative time.

I help conscious brides find calm and clarity so their wedding journey feels as magical and meaningful as the big day itself. Together, we’ll create a celebration that reflects your heart, your values, and your love story. Without the overwhelm.

About our products
All our products are digital downloads. You’ll receive a PDF file that you can print yourself. Easy, fast, instant access to your products and more sustainable too!

Why PlanParrot?
Parrots are brilliant at repeating things, but planning your wedding shouldn't just be repeating what others do. Think of me as a little PlanParrot on your shoulder, here to help you find your own voice as a unique bride.